Serendipity.
Serendipity. I have seen it. Actually I own it, but that is a different story all together. I came across a post on a random blog about the movie and love. I did not get to read much but it still got me thinking. On this blog and others I have read a lot of stock goes into the wait-for-it-and-it-will-come-to-you theory. Which in all actuality I hope works out. I
hope that if I wait long enough the right person will come along and be ready for whatever progresses from it. However, I am beginning to have serious problems with the movie and this idea. In the movie she and he end up going their separate ways and like years later they realize and get together. But my point is why wait until years have passed to have what you see in front of you now. I know that most of the advise is given when the final result is not insight. But when
it is why wait? Why waste years and years for something that you can have today? And why does fate (serendipity) make you wait to be happy. Shouldn’t things work out in a timely fashion?
Still I love the movie, but I just think that it is happier as a movie then if it was real.
posted by EnjoyTheSilence @ 8:49 AM
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4 Comments:
You are right, you shouldn't have to wait for it to come to you, whatever 'it' happens to be. I met and got engaged to the man I love in a period of 4 months. I knew we would get married in less than 2 months. It was the right time for us, and we married a year to the day after we met. I think of that as 'seredipity,' if we had met at any other time, it would not have worked out as well, or as fast as it did. My point is this....when you figure out you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want the rest of your life to begin as soon as possible. That's from another favorite movie, guess which one? ;) Why wait when you know what you want, and it's right in front of you? I did it, and have absolutely no regrets.
I like that movie too, by the way. But I like your take on it better. Thanks!
it must be an epidimic. I could have sworn that i wrote very similar things about love and waiting and not waiting in a few of my comments to you and i think there was a little on the subject on my blog. hmmm yes i do believe there was. :) sorry i cant help myself the sarcasam always comes out. but i do love this post. If i could meet with "serendipity" my life might just be much happier. about the sacarsam its just something i do for fun keeps people on their toes. but if you found it offensive i'm sorry. it wasn't meant to be. if it did you should read it again and laugh b/c it was meant to be laughed at. but n-e ways now it seems i'm the one rambling. hope to hear from you soon.
so here i am again replying to your comment. i'm a night person so all my post are written late at night between 11 and 4. i have insomnia so i use the time that i can't sleep to write on my blog. I'm glad you weren't offended by my earlier sarcasam. i've always been a sarcastic person it drove my teachers nuts when i was in high school. and it still drives my parents insane. n-e ways i defenitely believe you are right. It always seems that there is something that keeps it from working. the first real love i speak of well he decided he wanted to be in the navy. which is great that he knows what he wants to do and is doing it. but i just cant do a relationship with me in texas and him in japan. just doesn't work that way. it worked for the year he was stationed in cali. but after that things started going down hill and we started having trust issues. which always sucks. but i have also decieded to stop looking for love and to wait for it. my mom is shocked that i do not have a boyfriend but i figure things will happen when they need to. any ways this is turning into a long comment about nothing. sorry. ill will now go and update my blog. oh and i did enjoy this post. :) keep waiting and you just may see your princess in need of rescuing. <3
so it seems your still up. i'm currently working on my newest post. its about bein home on a friday and how my life (social) mostly has changed. its nice to find another night owl. its good to have something to do late at night and talking to someone with intelligence is a nice something to do. so it seems be both have a habit of going onto the others blog and leaving long rambling comments. but i like your long rambling comments. so its 11 here which makes it only 9 there correct? well i must get back to writting my post
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