Unrequested act of Kindness
It will be an early post today as I have plans that will keep me busy through Sunday. Anyway, I have started thinking a lot about this whole blog situation. It has occurred to me that it is very much a fate orientated world. I can be here today, and click one little button and end up reading someone’s thoughts from hundreds of miles away. But what ensnares my attention even more is that with a minute of my time I can leave a message, or comment to that person and everybody else who reads that persons blog, and in a matter of seconds have just impacted that persons life. Now the force of this collision is to be determined by the readers. I have been to peoples sites who have similar wants and needs as myself, and when I take the moment to impart a small piece of the optimism I live within everyday of my life, for a moment I can see the smile… Now this moment of connection that I may feel, is usually only as deep as opening the door for a stranger at the local store, but really the act of kindness is rarely overlooked. Now with this technology and a desire to be myself, there is a chance that fate may one day bring me to the site of someone who has common desires and hopes. Now thanks to fate I have just bumped into someone who I could walk through the rest of my life with… This may be extreme, but in the world which we live in, I almost rather bump into someone online as people online tend to have nothing to hide. Where as the girl at the cell phone store is putting on a front from the moment I walk in. I am tired of the games and the lies that people play in order to succeed in the dating world. What would happen if people just started being honest? Honest with their feelings and honest with their wants…

3 Comments:
honesty is hard to come by these days especially when it come to relationships. I've been married for 16 years believe it or not. The earlier you practice being honest about what your wants and needs are, the better it is for your relationship. Just be sensitive enough to know when your "honesty" is hurtful instead of helpful to your relationship. As for finding your true love, or soul mate... just a few words. My mother used to tell me that my soulmate was out there just waiting to find me. And that I just needed to pray for our paths to collide. Sounds like you may have found yours...but don't fret if it's not.
maybe...your eyes are just opened to new possibilities now? instead of being so focused on just one option. if people were just honest with their feelings and honest with their wants…we would all still be in the 1st grade. as you get order, you start caring more about what people think and how they will judge you. it would be sooooooooooo nice though...
You posted a comment on my blog "the view". I don't really believe in fate. I believe that we are pre-destined for certain things and that we meet up with those people for certain reasons. Go to my blog and I'll give you answers to some of your other questions.
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