Clarity

So I think everyone made great points. Most clear to me is that if this girl, the one who is so far away is not going to be content to give it a chance then I need to move on and find someone who is slightly less pessimistic. I am an optimist, and a romantic. I was thinking, yes I am far away from her but I am willing to go down every two weeks minimum. Also included in this is the fact that I was planning on moving down there anyway. So in my mind, every two weeks until I move down there. However she is not seeing it as a reality and in a sense has crushed my “reality” of being able to pursue this. Actually it works out better. I can not be with a pessimistic girl. I need someone who sees the world under the same light as me. So in essence although she was not completely saying no, I now am. I believe that I can and will find someone who is better suited for me. Wonderful. I am so relieved, I can not begin to explain how bothered I have been over where me and her “were”. Now it is clear, we are both single. I no longer will go out of my way to travel to see her. This being said, if she realizes she wants to give it a chance, I will second guess myself, but not until she comes to me. Right? I do appreciate the advise. I think it is time that I stop thinking so much about her and leave it in the past. Why fight for something I can’t have…. That all being said, I think I need to call up my guy friends and go have a night out…