Winter is over?
Third beautiful day in a row. I can not imagine what will happen if this weather does not make it through the weekend. I need to have a day out in it. I come to work as it is rising, and home as it is finishing setting. The only time I have is lunch. Saturday should be wonderful… Well I have encountered the same problem I always seem to have. The more I become interested in girls, the farther away they become. Not in the emotional sense. I mean emotionally I can seem to make it work. But then when it comes to the logistics of the relationship, these seemingly perfect candidates for my affection are always outside of my reaches. I can visit and if thing are worthwhile I could move, or they could move, but to see if it will work it is just always out of reach. This weekend I am going out to the studio on Saturday. I am going to get away from it all. I need to think things over once in a while and now is one of those times.
So out to the studio for a day of sun and … well plain relaxation. I may practice my golf swing, or maybe just lay out in the sun. Either way escaping the city and reality is so relaxing. And the best part. While out there I am unreachable. Completely unreachable. I have a phone out there, but nobody has the number, cell phones don’t work and absolutely no computer. Well there is, but it is not connected to the internet. So I am unreachable and surrounded by trees and views. What more could you want… Well work is almost done…
I should finish up and head home….
posted by EnjoyTheSilence @ 2:16 PM
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3 Comments:
Heya!
I just wanted to say, thank you for being the first person to post a comment on my blog! That was pretty exciting for me, that I had put up my first post, and less than a day later I already had a complete stranger looking at it!! You gave some great advice, I've managed to cut my posts down so they're not so damn long. I think I was also just all excited at first and had a ton of stuff to say, so that's cut down naturally. I think you'll find it a little more interesting now, I've been busy with pictures and stuff. http://jenkoontz.blogspot.com
Well I've been checking yours out, good stuff. What's up with you and girls? You seem like a nice enough guy. Just only meet up with ones that live in your area, otherwise what's the point? Also, I always notice that single people who complain about not being able to find people always have the same problem- they try too hard and are focused upon it too much. You're gonna find the girl of your dreams as soon as you stop caring about it so much. That's how it happened for me- as soon as I decided I loved being single, of course I met my (current) boyfriend! We were both happy being single and denied our feelings for a while, but finally we had to admit it (love, that is). :) Why does it work that way? I think it's because people can smell desperation a MILE away (not that you're desperate... but can't you see how it might be interpreted that way by someone who doesn't know you?), and don't want anything to do with it, because if someone is desperate then there must be something wrong with them. Of course that's not true, but I think that's how people interpret things at a subconscious level.
So relax, stop worrying about getting a girl so much, and just start having fun as a single, unattached guy.
Actually, you're not that obsessive or worrisome about it, so my apologies for all this unsolicited dating advice!! I just like to give it. ;)
"See" ya round!! :)
sorry your still have chic problems. i thought you were gonna sit back and let life happen let love come to you. thats whats wrong it seems you didn't give it a chance. go out this weekend and clear your mind its a good thing to do. when you get back remember to go with the flow. it'll happen when its suppose to
I agree.There comes a time in life when you just decide that you "can" be content with just you and that there is more to life than "that other person". That other person will never make you happy, they just add more happiness to a life that is already complete. When I came to this conclusion in my life, I wrote a list of the things that I wanted in a partner, I prayed about them and gave them away (to God). I was then content. Four months later, I met my husband.We were married a week after our 1st date and we are now going on 11yrs. He's great, sex is great and he's my best friend. Try it.
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