Two in one day...

just like to say this… About a year and a half ago, I only ate healthy foods and worked out daily… I felt wonderful, I was in great shape… And the best part about it was although I did not look that much different then I do now, I had so much confidence. I got an email from that ex, the one who is living closer then before. Even though I did not tell her about my situation she was encouraging me to date, “you deserve someone good. You are a catch, you could get any girl…” On and on. Now I am thinking about it, when I had that mindset, back when I was in shape I could get any girl. AND at the time I was essentially unemployed. (Bartender)… Now I am far from unemployed and I cant seem to figure it out… I just need to start figuring out what I am doing wrong and change it… I think my biggest problem is not pursuing girls who seem interested…!