Weekends... They keep coming...

Lots of new stuff going on… I am 85% moved. Will be finished this weekend. I am excited… The weather is getting great at the studio. I have had the fireplace going the last couple times I was up. Nothing is more awesome then a fire in a woodstove… It is sad how excited I get about that. But really that is the whole reason I want to get away from the city. I want to be out living a simple life for a while…
Just today, I received a email from an ex. She is living a few hours away and is thinking about coming back. I haven’t heard from her in months… I don’t know how I feel about it… Basically it is one of those situations I plan to avoid… Although I did not ask out Radioshack girl… I did make an attempt at another girl. It was somewhat confusing. I do not know for sure, but I have a feeling she has extreme ADD. As we talked she kept changing the subject, even to the point of mid sentence. I am super confused about it. A friend of mine who has talked to her before said that is just how she is… So I don’t know what to think.
My friend is dating this girl who I think I would totally go for if he wasn’t already starting to try and date her. How weird would that be even if it doesn’t work out between them, will I ever have a chance? Maybe… but it would probably be at the cost of my friendship… So nope.. She is basically out of reach permanently. How many people out there have dated a friends ex? Or better yet how many have hooked up with a friends ex? Is it a bad thing? What if you tried to pursue the girl/guy while they were still with your friend..? Would that be ok if you were up front with him/her?